Mr. Rogers and the Power of Persuasion

Mr. Rogers and the Power of Persuasion

In 1751, Scottish philosopher David Hume published his masterwork, An Enquiry Concerning the Principles of Morals. In it, he states that you can never change someone’s mind in an argument with just reasoning and logic. At first read, that sounded very strange to me, as I’m sure it does to you. But in Hume’s view, we are animals primarily motivated and influenced by our intuitions and emotions. The majority of our convictions don’t actually come from the rational analysis of facts. As he wrote in 1739: “Reason is, and ought only to be, the slave of the passions, and can never pretend to any other office than to serve and obey them.” He therefore believed that, in an argument, the only way you’ll ever change someone’s mind is by first speaking to their intuitions and affections. In the last decade — thanks to the research of psychologists like Daniel Kahneman, Jonathan Haidt, and others — we’ve discovered that Hume was mostly correct;
human reasoning is a servant to intuition. [Haidt] Our minds are pattern matchers that make very quick judgments — within a second, usually — and then we recruit our reasoning afterwards to justify what we’ve just done. So the metaphor I used in my previous book, The Happiness Hypothesis, is that the mind is divided into parts, like a rider on an elephant. The rider is our conscious reasoning — it’s pretty small and impotent,
but it acts like it’s in charge — and the elephant is the other 99% of the mind,
which really runs most of our behavior. Most of us spend a lot of our time trying to persuade other people’s riders. We give them all these reasons — ‘here are the seven reasons why you’re wrong’ or ‘why you should see it my way’ — when, in fact, the way to persuade people
is to speak to the elephant first. The elephant is a lot stronger than the rider. If you get somebody feeling the truth of what you’re saying or feeling that they like you
or like what you’re saying, and the elephant kind of wants to go in your direction, then it’s effortless to persuade the rider to go along. But if the elephant is digging in its heels, the elephant doesn’t want to go, doesn’t want to be dragged along by you to the conclusion that you’re trying to get them to, then there’s really nothing you can say
that will persuade the rider. [Narrator] We’re always told that, in arguments, we should have empathy for the other side and speak to their sentiments. And here we see psychologically why that’s so important. Reason alone doesn’t do the job. As Haidt discovered in his research for his book,
The Righteous Mind, everyone is convinced of their own rationality,
open-mindedness, and enlightenment. It is therefore of the utmost importance to understand one another, instead of using reason to fend off opposing views. The idea that we should speak to people’s elephant before their rider is nothing new. It’s fundamental to the art of rhetoric
and has been for a long time. “The province of rhetoric”, wrote Chinese philosopher Confucius, “is about cultivating mutual understanding; about fostering an ever-growing web
of interpersonal relationships.” But what are the rhetorical tools for cultivating this mutual understanding? And how do we use them to talk to people’s elephants? In his treatise on rhetoric, ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle laid out his three means of persuasion. To him, a persuasive and effective speaker was someone who could use all three. “Rhetoric,” he wrote, “is the faculty of discovering, in any particular case, all of the available means of persuasion.” In other words, deciding which of them to use depends on your purpose in the argument, the place and time, and especially the audience. But if you use them all together, and you use them well, they can help you speak to other people’s elephants before their rider. First is ethos, an argument by character,
which uses the persuaders personality, reputation, and ability to look trustworthy. Ethos is used in ads all the time to establish credibility. [Voice-over] The first luxury brand awarded top safety ratings across its entire model line. [Narrator] It’s also used to show the overall virtue of the speaker and their goodwill toward the audience. [Kennedy] But today, were I to offer — after little more than a week in office — detailed legislation to remedy every national ill, the Congress would rightly wonder
whether the desire for speed had replaced the duty of responsibility. [Narrator] Aristotle believed ethos was the most important form of persuasion. As one of his contemporaries wrote:
“A person’s life persuades better than their word.” After ethos is pathos, an argument by emotion. It’s the appeal to a person or audience’s sense of identity, self-interest, and sentiments. [King] My four little children… will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. I have a dream today. [Narrator] The most persuasive pathos appeal is humor.
A sense of humor calms people down and it makes you appear to stand above petty disagreements. It’s also an ethos enhancer.
Good humor shows you have personality and it often establishes common ground with an audience. In terms of people’s elephants, a laugh is about as intuitive as it gets. [Gaffigan] We eat, you know,
because we want to have a good time. Really that’s all a vacation is:
just us eating in a place we’ve never been. [Laughter] Well, why don’t we somethin’, then we’ll go and get somethin’ to eat. [Laughter] [Narrator] And finally, there’s logos, an argument by logic, which attempts to persuade the audience by making a reasonable claim and offering proof in support of that claim. [Green] But on average, geography has a huge impact
on American health and longevity. Like the Eastern Kentucky communities, where life expectancy is under 70, have higher rates of
tobacco usage than the central Colorado communities
where life expectancy is over 85. But Eastern Kentucky is also poorer,
and has fewer doctors. [Narrator] This one’s a little harder when it
comes to people’s elephants. Haidt told us that reason alone doesn’t work, but there are actually logos tricks to
getting people to like and trust you. The most important one is a concession. Concessions are using your opponent’s argument to your own advantage. By admitting the validity of a point claimed in their argument, you indicate that you’re not only listening, but that you’re seeing their side. Concessions are a way for you to give their elephant a little bit so that your counterargument has an
easier time getting through to them. Now all this is not to say facts and reasoning aren’t important in persuasion. Indeed, it’s easy to be sold on a convincing feeling, but that feeling is not always backed up empirically. If you end up in an argument and the other person runs out of logic, it usually means your position is stronger. But, if you haven’t established either ethos or pathos, and you haven’t tried to make concessions or show good humor, then your facts and logic won’t matter. You never spoke to their elephant. They will more than likely end up
attacking you personally, calling your facts irrelevant, or they’ll ignore you. As the best speakers in history — from Cicero to Lincoln to Martin Luther King, Jr. — knew, you need all of the means of persuasion
to get people to like and trust you. Used skillfully, they convince your audience that what you’re saying feels true,
and they’ll want to hear your side. I want to look at an example where these three means of persuasion are used to perfection. In 1969, the late great Fred Rogers known to most as “Mister Rogers” from his children’s program on PBS, had a hearing in the Senate. It was one in a series of hearings that were held with the intention of cutting PBS’s $20 million budget in half. In the short period of six minutes, Senator Pastore, known by many to be a tough guy, goes from being abrasive towards Rogers to being absolutely entralled by him. In fact, he found Roger’s passion for children’s public television, and the potential it had to help children grow into better people, so convincing that he ended up increasing PBS’s budget to $22 million. I’m not going to go through the whole thing, but let’s look at some key moments and see how the three means of persuasion play into them. [Pastore] All right, Rogers you got the floor. [Rogers chuckles] [Rogers] Senator Pastore. This is a philosophical statement and would take about ten minutes to read, so I’ll not do that. One of the first things that a child learns
in a healthy family is trust. And I trust what you have said, that you will read this. It’s very important to me I care deeply about children… [Narrator] In his intro, Rogers piles on ethos. This makes sense — it’s the best way to establish trust and liking with an audience. This line, especially, is a beautiful one. It equates a healthy family to Rogers’ trust
in Pastore himself. This frames the discussion between them
as a familial one. And you’ve probably already noticed how calm Rogers is. That’s important. Known to be the greatest orator in history, Roman consul Cicero believed that a speaker transforms himself into an emotional role model, showing the audience how it should feel. [Rogers] My first children’s-
[Pastore] Will it make you happy if you read it? [Rogers] I’d just like to talk about, it if it’s alright. My first children’s program was on WQED
fifteen years ago and its budget was $30. Now, with the help of the Sears-Roebuck Foundation and National Educational Television, as well as all of the affiliated stations, each station pays to show our program. It’s a unique kind of funding in educational television. With this help, now our program has a budget of $6,000. It may sound like quite a difference, but $6,000 pays for less than two minutes of cartoons. Two minutes of animated… what I sometimes say “bombardment”. I’m very much concerned, as I know you are, about what’s being delivered
to our children in this country. [Narrator] This part’s important.
He creates more common ground between them. They’re both concerned about the well-being
of the nation’s children. Pastore was once a child, he has a family,
and it’s his job to represent the needs of Americans
as a senator. [Rogers] And I’ve worked in the field of child development for six years now, trying to understand the inner needs of children. We deal with such things as the inner drama of childhood. We don’t have to bop somebody over the head
to make him — to make drama on the screen. We deal with such things as getting a haircut. Or the feelings about brothers and sisters, and the kind of anger that arises in simple family situations. And we speak to it constructively.
[Pastore] Could we get a copy of this
so that we could see it? Maybe not today, but I’d like to see the program. [Rogers] I’d like very much for you to see it.
[Pastore] I’d like to see the program itself, or any one of them, ya see? [Rogers] We made a hundred programs for EEN,
the Eastern Educational Network, and then when the money ran out, people in Boston and Pittsburgh and Chicago all came to the floor and said, “We’ve got to have more of this neighborhood expression of care.” And this is what- this is what I give. I give an expression of care every day to each child. To help him realize that he is unique. I end the program by saying, “You’ve made this day a special day by just your being you. There’s no person in the whole world like you, and I like you just the way you are.” And I feel that if we in public television can only make it clear that feelings are
mentionable and manageable, we will have done a great service for mental health. I think that it’s much more dramatic that two men could be working out their feelings of anger, much more dramatic
than showing something of gunfire. I’m constantly concerned about
what our children are seeing. And for fifteen years, I have tried in this country
and Canada to present what I feel is a meaningful expression of care. [Pastore] Do you narrate it? [Rogers] I’m the host, yes. And I do all the puppets and I write all the music
and I write all the scripts. [Pastore] Well, I’m supposed to be a pretty tough guy, and this the first time I’ve had goose bumps
for the last two days. [Senate chuckles] [Rogers] Well, I’m grateful,
not only for your goose bumps, but for your interest in our kind of communication. [Narrator] This simple statement says
“thank you for truly listening”, but it also points out to the senator that it’s a clear sign he should approve the funding request. Rogers finishes by telling Pastore
the words of a song from his show. This is what’s known as an “enargeia” in rhetoric. He’s already used it once. The idea is to bring the audience into a scene
and make them feel present, as if Pastore is at the show himself. It’s a pathos appeal, and it’s a great way to end. Ending on an emotional note is the best way to change people’s minds and get them to take action. [Rogers] Could I tell you the words of one of the songs, which I feel is very important?
[Pastore] Yes. This has to do with that good feeling of control,
which I feel that the children need to know is there. And it starts out:
“What do you do with the mad that you feel?” And that first line came straight from a child.
I work with children, doing puppets and in very personal
communication with small groups. “What do you do with the mad that you feel,
when you feel so mad you could bite? When the whole wide world seems oh-so-wrong
and nothing you do seems very right? What do you do? Do you punch a bag?
Do you pound some clay or some dough? Do you round up friends for a game of tag or see how fast you go? It’s great to be able to stop,
when you’ve planned a thing that’s wrong. And be able to do something else instead,
and think this song. I can stop when I want to, can stop when I wish.
Can stop, stop, stop, anytime. And what a good feeling to feel like this,
and know that the feeling is really mine Know that there’s something deep inside,
that helps us become what we can. For a girl can be someday a lady,
and the boy can be someday a man.” [Pastore] I think it’s wonderful.
I think it’s wonderful. Looks like you just earned the $20 million. [Senate laughing] [Applause] [Narrator] You don’t need a deconstruction of this interaction to see the merit in Rogers’ testimony. His calm demeanor and earnestness alone might persuade even the most curmudgeonly person
to his side. But whether he used these persuasive techniques wittingly or not, they are the reason this interaction was so successful. Sure, Rogers’ position here is a strong one, but I think if he used the same techniques to argue something more controversial, he’d disarmed even the most oppositional person. He skillfully used the means of persuasion to speak to Pastore’s elephant, and the rider came right along with it. What I think differentiates this exchange from so many others that I see today is that it’s actually an argument. Nowadays, we mostly just see fights. The Greeks were very purposeful in this distinction. They knew that in a fight, all you do is try and win. In an argument, however, you try to win over an audience. As rhetorician Jay Heinrichs writes: “A fight never persuades, it only inspires revenge or retreat. An argument gets people to do what you want —
it is a means to a solution.” Fights happen because people haven’t done the persuasive groundwork. [Lisa] Bart, just get out of here. [Bart] Hey! It’s a free country, you get out.
[Lisa] That does it make sense. [Bart] I know are, but what am I? [Lisa] Get out! Get out! [Narrator] In fights, one side wants the other hear their own sentiments, their own logic, and they assault
each other’s ethos. Remember that ethos, pathos, and logos
are an appeal to the audience, not the speaker. If you want to conduct an argument, instead of a fight, then all the means of persuasion must
speak to the other person’s elephant. Once you’ve done that, then you can start throwing more contentious points of reasoning and logic from your side out there. But, as we learn from Rogers, you still have to use all the means of persuasion in harmony. Engaging in arguments rather than fights
sounds really basic, but it’s extremely important. A great example comes from research psychologist John Gottman and his “love lab”
at the University of Washington. In the 1980s and 90s, Gottman taped hundreds of married couples and their arguments
over the course of nine years. His team then entered every conceivable emotion and logical point from those arguments into a database. Gottman found that married couples argued
as much as those who ended in divorce. But, the successful couples used arguments differently. They used them to solve problems
and work out differences; they showed faith in the outcome. The unsuccessful couples, on the other hand,
used their sessions to attack each other. They were constantly defensive, overly critical, and contemptuous of each other. In other words, the happy couples argued,
and the unhappy ones fought. I think one of the big problems in all of this as well is the language we use to describe arguments. Language drastically affects how we perceive reality
and in American culture, at least, we frame arguments like fights, like war. As cognitive linguists George Lakoff points out, “We attack their positions and we defend our own.
We gain and lose ground. If we find a position indefensible, we can abandon it
and take a new line of attack. We shoot down all of their arguments.
We dig in. The person on the other side of the argument
is seen as an enemy.” Instead, I agree with Lakoff when he says we could frame arguments like dances. The means of persuasion are much more
prevalent in this metaphor. One person comes forward to reach out to the other. They are opposites, but they work together.
They are cooperating. The argument becomes more about
agreement than disagreement. Indeed, we don’t argue with someone unless we have some common interest with them. We need to persuade them because we are interested in working with them to achieve some end. So often when I see political situations like this, especially on tribal media like Twitter and Facebook, I immediately frame it in my head as
the war between good and evil, not a dance between mutually interested groups. But these are rarely good-versus-evil scenarios
and — don’t get me wrong — there are exceptions of truly ill-intentioned people. But most of the time, it’s just two humans with
different viewpoints and goals, and both could potentially be convinced
of the other’s viewpoints and goals. If I always frame things as good-versus-evil, then I’m going to write off huge swathes of people for no reason. I do it more often than I want to. I see evil in the person on the other side of the argument before I even read or listen to anything. And that’s a problem when it comes to learning the full picture and finding a better synthesis of ideas and beliefs. “The only way for the whole truth to emerge,”
wrote Philosopher John Stuart Mill, “is by the reconciling and combining of opposites.” I can’t learn, I can’t help,
and I can’t persuade, if I don’t listen. I want to add two caveats in all of this. History has shown us that when one side makes repeated attempts to argue for political and civil rights, but they aren’t listened to by the other side,
then the only answer is civil disobedience. But movements like this should never precede a genuine attempt at discourse with the other side. Protest without discussion means limiting your chance to convince the other side to come to yours. It also limits your chance to disprove their argument. If you never give them a chance to tell their side,
or you force them to believe something, then it’s unlikely they’ll ever come to your side. As Lincoln once cautioned,
“Dictate a man’s judgment, command his action, or mark him to be despised,
and he will retreat within himself, close all the avenues to his head and his heart;
and even though your cause being naked truth itself, transformed to the heaviest lance, harder than steel,
and sharper than steel can be made, and though you throw it with more
Herculean force and precision, you shall be no more able to pierce him than to penetrate the hard shell of a tortoise with a rye straw.” The second caveat is that means of persuasion can be used as much for deception as they can for good. That’s also why it’s important to know when you’ve been put under the spell of persuasion. The best defense against a master persuader is knowing their tools, so you can recognize
when you’re being duped. I’m a firm believer that the best storytellers,
articulaters, and persuaders, not only have the strongest relationships with people,
but they also run the world. They know how to get friends and audiences
to like and trust them. They know that facts don’t change opinions unless they first speak to people’s sentiments, their sense of identity, and self-interest. And ultimately, they know how
to get people to take action. Putting the means of persuasion
into practice is not easy. Sometimes I just want to shoot down the other person’s argument and call them stupid. It’s easy for me to forget that arguments aren’t about winning; they’re about winning people over to your side. That’s why it’s important to find commonality and trust before getting into a contentious argument or working out a problem —
even with people you believe are beneath contempt. As Jonathan Haidt says, “If you really want
to open your mind, open your heart first. We are deeply intuitive creatures whose gut feelings drive our strategic reasoning. The persuader’s goal should be to convey respect and warmth and an openness to dialogue before stating one’s own case.” Praise, humor, and sincere expressions of interests go a long way in getting people to hear your side. I’ll add to that list “a good story”. Stories help find commonality between
people’s experience and values. They break down prejudice, indifference,
and they create trust. Once you skillfully establish these forms of persuasion, you might have a chance for the opposition
to hear your side. And maybe, with enough reasoning and logic,
or a good story, you’ll even bring them to your side. If we want to enact change with our arguments, whether it be with family, in our business, or in politics, then I think we can all take a cue from Fred Rogers. He told children for three decades that they are valuable and that their opinion is valuable. That’s exactly how we should see the people
with whom we argue. As Hume knew long ago,
“Truth only springs from an argument among friends.” The key word being “friends”. [Mister Rogers] You’ve made this day a special day
by just your being you. There’s no person in the whole world like you,
and I like you just the way you are.

100 thoughts on “Mr. Rogers and the Power of Persuasion

  1. there many of days I see the fruit of the power of persuasion bought by men with evil heart. The reason why I look into the darkness for myself is to defense myself for such foes but have found that i am them, at times. today I see one of the pure example of persuasion used in right and used by man i didn't know existed in the human race. For the reason i am humbled and proud. Great Job on the video my Guy.

  2. Ethos is argument by character. You believe what i say because everybody else thinks i'm honest, noble, famous, intelligent, beautiful, whatever.
    Pathos is argument by emotion. I make you feel the way i feel.
    Logos is argument by logic, facts, truth, all that bullshit.

  3. This must be one of the most constructive, informative and enjoyable videos that I have seen in all my years on this platform.
    Thank you sincerely for the hard work!

  4. Mr Rogers with his humble demeanor and life goals based on love is more human and lived a more meaningful life than that senator enjoying his power trip ego boost.

  5. I cry every time NIN/Social Network's beginning piano sound starts when Fred Rogers' recites his song. I can't take it. It's brilliant, thank you for putting two of my gods together, Trent Reznor and Fred Rogers. My heart just explodes every time I watch this part.

  6. I teach first year writing. This video is so awesome. I assign it to my classes to watch, but I think I may have to go ahead and take the class time play it. It simplifies Aristotle a bit, but it's fantastic and a precise medicine for current society conditions.

  7. Will, I show this in my undergraduate Intro Communication & Speech class every semester as an excellent intro to our chapter on persuasion. Thank you for this!!

  8. A magnificent video. The time, care, and research that you have put into this video shows me that you have a deep appreciation for humanity. You see the best that humanity has to offer and it is reflected in your work here. Thank you for your gift. I will be sharing this video in my middle school class in our lesson over persuasion.

  9. Forget about all the theory and technique. Just be genuine and honest. That's what Mr. Rogers is.
    Thank you for sharing the amazing clip of Mr. Rogers.

  10. I absolutely love this video. It speaks to me in a way that makes it not unlike art. Nearly two years later, i just want to say Thank you, and well done.

  11. Mr. Rodgers is the man….his show was a great childhood memory. It is clear as day that he genuinely cares about children and wants the best for them. We need more guys like him in shows for the kids of today.

  12. imagine if you had to pretend like you were a bad guy and would even think about denying Mr Rogers money to help the kids. i know wu-tang is for the children but only because Mr. Rogers raised them

  13. I taught writing and rhetoric for 7 years at public universities. When I found this video, it became a highlight in every class. It was one of the few things that I used from semester to semester (alongside Foster-Wallace's "This is Water" speech). It inspired me and my students every time. Thank you for making this.

  14. Its amazing how years after his death he is still teaching us. I was watching a video some time ago talking about why Mr. Roger's message is needed now more then ever, and this right here is the lesson from him we as a society need right now.

  15. 11:50 Mr.Rogers mentions mental health and gun control… and how it’s preventable by telling one another you LOVE them, just the way they are …then at 13:58 FTW

  16. You know I’ve heard his speech a few times and always found it moving. But in your video, whoever edited and chose the music, moved me to tears and emotion. Beautiful. And thank you for sharing these insights into psychology and oratory

  17. One of the best videos I've ever seen, out of all videos, everywhere. Wow. I know I'm late to the party, but, thank you Will.

  18. Mr. Rogers had an intense but gentle, under the radar charisma and a lyrical, almost hypnotic speech pattern. His tone, his pacing, and his choice of words was fantastic.

  19. Good luck trying to be gungho with Mr. Roger's not happening the man is a master at being kind gentle and identifying with peoples inner self. He's amazing and was a true gift from God, Amen ❤🙏🏻🕊

  20. Thank you, Will Schoder, for creating this!
    I think it was this video of yours that several months or maybe even years ago introduced me to Mr. Rogers and what better could happen to anyone's soul… <3
    Still I could not get myself to watch it til the end until this time and I think I found out why. Although I am very happy to learn about the distinction between "fighting" and "arguing", "winning" and "winning over" I feel like it is not correct as in it might not be complete. I feel like there is a third category which resides kind of inbetween "winning over" and "arguing". The way you described "arguing" "winning over" does not seem to be the right counterpart for it to me. I feel like "winning over" is more of an equivalent to "manipulating" – which is why I even felt too uncomfortable to watch it through the first time. And "arguing" – well, I couldn't find a short catchphrase yet, but – how about "finding the best solution/learning"? I thought of these, because your description of it actually made me feel like arguing people, although convinced of their own point of view of course, were actually willing to learn about the other perspective and flaws in their own, and even be so much more interested in the most constructive outcome of the situation that they would be willing to change their standpoint in the face of better arguments (logical or emotional).
    "Fighting" = "Winning"
    "Manipulating" = "Winning Over"
    "Arguing" = "Finding the best Solution/Learning"
    Does that make sense to you – or not at all?
    Are there maybe better words to describe it? (Please consider that English is not my mother tongue).

  21. In the context of the current political situation, it seems that fighting is becoming more and more likely than genuine argument.
    There are certain elements that see a disagreement over what is true as proof of being an enemy. The sad truth is that such people, quick to make enemies over facts, become the enemies of everyone else – even those who are actually looking for the Truth. I am Catholic, and I sadly see this within my own church, from all manner of sides, and it irritates me when otherwise good and holy men accuse their brethren of holding everything that is wrong with the Church because either they like Latin or they like guitars. I happen to like both in my worship. What does that make me? A modernist for the guitars? A regressive traditionalist for the Latin?

    I do not know how to call men to set down their arms. I hope learning about rhetoric will help. Nevertheless I know that, in some things, some men will not be persuaded at all – rightly or wrongly.

  22. Mr. Rogers talked about this moment and how he had planned to read the report. But he saw that Senator Pastore looked tired and weary of all the talk, so he discarded the planned speech and went with his instinct to know how to handle the situation. Mr. Rogers was still fairly early in his career, and not as well known. Later, this would be a no-brainer: no one goes against this quiet, earnest, and persuasive man.

  23. All the hateful dems on social media today need to learn from this man. Stop spreading hate based on fake news and misunderstandings and start trying to respect and understand other people. The world would be a much better place if we started to make it one instead of complaining about who our leader is for years and years and complaining about what others are doing instead of doing something ourselves. It's easy to judge others but judgment will eventually come to you as well.

  24. I think one of our biggest problems in interpersonal communication is the word "but"… instead, let's try "also… as I see it, and maybe you can agree…"

  25. I wish I saw more Mr Rodgers as a child. One of the best videos on persuasion :). Loved the quotes, analogies, and the attention to detail. please make more videos!

  26. Sure, speaking to "one's elephant" is effective. It is is the strategy that advertisers, politicians… manipulators of all sorts, have been using for eons.
    How else does a creep like Trump attain the power that he has?
    Fred Rogers may have used it to achieve something truly positive; but let's not forget the fact that like so many other things in this world like fire, knives, etc., it is a device that can be used for "good" or "evil".

  27. This is an exceptionally well-made documentary/video essay. Thank you truly for taking the time to explore these very important topics and ideas. It was both helpful and encouraging to watch. Wishing you well.

  28. Thank you, friend for this wonderful and concise exemplification of a very important subject even beyond Mr. Rogers, but how perfect to use this man to do so.

  29. Holy crap, this video alone helped me understand all 4 years of my high school English in 23 minutes. This is so helpful! Thank you!

  30. My goal in life is to be as much like Mr. Rogers as possible. I appreciate his genuine character and the fact he is willing to be nervous and uncomfortable for what he thinks is important. Seeing that vulnerability and how it doesnt ruin your chances at affecting other people in a positive way is incredibly reassuring to me because fear speaking to new people is my biggest impediment in life

  31. Although correct, people who ignore logic in an argue are the people who don’t truely understand what they are talking about. A person with a lot of pathos and ethos could convince us that something very bad is very good potential life threatening. The only way to truely be progressive and develope is logic otherwise we can get lost in ideas that are just plain wrong or even evil. Ethos and pathos might get people to listen to you more but what good is that if people are listening to someone idiotic or evil. Pathos and ethos might draw people in, but people should try to understand that logic is all that matters at the end.

  32. I mean, I feel like this video also explains how hitler came to power. Like he did all of these things and threw logic at the bottom like you are saying. This video is basically saying how to hypnotize people into trusting you. A good person relies on logic.

  33. What persuasion is missing is sincerity. any hack can get on stage and be a good motivational speaker, but it takes sincerity to be effective. humans aren't stupid and an individual can typically tell if someone is sincere or not. the senator could clearly tell fred was being sincere

  34. This is a great video. I don't like that I think the video on persuasion is great. I've been hoodwinked somewhere, and it's making me uneasy, even if the video really is great.

  35. Can you imagine how Fred Rogers must have been bullied as a child– and God knows what else happened to him? In his day, you would NEVER tell anyone if abuse happened. Being rich certainly wouldn't protect you from being beaten up at school or molested by anyone. I do think he knew he was working out his own terror (along with loneliness) in childhood by doing what he did. He cared deeply for sure. CARTOONS ARE VIOLENT, SEXUAL, DANGEROUS AS HELL FOR ANYONE TO WATCH. I had very negative experiences after watching cartoons. Have you? I told my mother all about it and she really didn't care what I said. Just wanted to share that with friends here. Hope you'll think about what anime does to us all. ❤

  36. He was the best Snipper of the Vietnam War he is also one of the Original Men Who Stair at Goats seal team 4 my dad was on his team and that's why he left the Navy to go work with Glen

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